Reflecting Intimacy

Reflecting Intimacy

She is reflecting intimacy. In this moment, time is irrelevant.  The ability to see and hear IS intimacy.  Anticipation of the Meeting I clicked on the all too familiar link that would transport my voice and video image across the world.  I waited with this giddy...
Intimacy in Relationship is a Practice

Intimacy in Relationship is a Practice

Intimacy in relationship grows through practice. Just like the popular children’s story of going on a bear hunt, you must go through it. There’s no shortcuts or easy street! Dogs, Barks and Teeth, Oh My! I had been attacked and bitten by a dog less than a...
The Pleasure of Touch

The Pleasure of Touch

With extended “shelter in place” and limited physical touch with others, many are facing a monumental issue of touch deprivation.   From Limited Touch to Reconnecting The side effects are many, including depression, agitation, aggression,...
10 Tips to Find Happy

10 Tips to Find Happy

Tips for finding happy!  Humans need intimacy! We live and thrive with connection to each other. Yet, many of the current precautions are isolating us from this connection to help contain the novel coronavirus. It’s equally important for each of us to consciously...
Coaching Handprints: Becoming an Intimacy Coach

Coaching Handprints: Becoming an Intimacy Coach

This is the lineage of the coaching handprints on my own heart.  These are the men and women that supported my transformation. Prelude It was a cold dark evening in January when we were ushered into the large venue.  My anticipation was very high even though...
I Know

I Know

There is a man I know… His love towards me soothes my soul and ignites my mind. His attention feels like a blanket of golden rain engulfing me. His long, lean and strong body stirs something deep inside me.  When he is hurting and flinches, I know patience is a...