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Asking for Sex

Asking for Sex

How do you ask for sex? How do you like to be asked? Slowing down and engaging in connection over time will help!

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Sharing Fantasy

Sharing Fantasy

Fantasy is a brain job.  Sexual fantasies are deeply personal.  In fact, for many people, it is something that they may never share or speak. 

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Erotic Fantasies

Erotic Fantasies

The Brain Trapped We are all born with an amazing ability to imagine.  It is why big purple dinosaurs, talking animals, and magical schools for wizards exist and attract young audiences.  Yet, somewhere along the way, a pruning occurs and much of...

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The Pleasure of Touch

The Pleasure of Touch

With the extended “shelter in place” and limited physical touch with others, many are facing a monumental issue of touch deprivation.  The side effects are many, including depression, agitation, aggression, loneliness.  When we lack connection with...

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10 Tips to Find Happy During a Quarantine

10 Tips to Find Happy During a Quarantine

Humans need intimacy! We live and thrive with connection to each other. Yet, many of the current precautions are isolating us from this connection to help contain the novel coronavirus. It’s equally important for each of us to consciously be aware of what we need and...

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Coaching Handprints: Becoming an Intimacy Coach

Coaching Handprints: Becoming an Intimacy Coach

Prelude It was a cold dark evening in January when we were ushered into the large venue.  My anticipation was very high even though this would be the 4th time to see the production of “Wicked.”  My awareness of sound was super keen, noticing people’s voices,...

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What Is Intimacy Coaching?

What Is Intimacy Coaching?

What Is Intimacy Coaching? I know it can be a bit unnerving to even consider talking with someone who is an intimacy coach.  Most people assume it is about sexuality and that topic can create lots of feelings!  Truth is, it can be about sexual things.  And it can be...

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Dropping the Veil in a Tantric Puja

Dropping the Veil in a Tantric Puja

The beginner tantric puja event opened each of us in different ways!  As each person arrived, there was a mix of uncertainty, curiosity and nervous laughter.  Everyone visited, introducing themselves and munched while watching others out of the corner of the...

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